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Do you get mad when . . . . ?
« Thread Started on Sept 23, 2009, 4:51pm »

Do you get mad when your other half looks at other people? Like, drools over them with their eyes.

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« Reply #1 on Sept 23, 2009, 9:37pm »

i dont, simply because i know he is mine... i know we're steady and secure and happy so i trust him not to stray physically... he can look all he wants, as long as he doesnt touch

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« Reply #2 on Sept 25, 2009, 12:07am »

I am not with someone, but I would actually be concerned if my partner DID NOT look at other people. I think it is natural to to be like "that person is good looking". Thinking someone is attractive and love for someone are two different things.

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« Reply #3 on Sept 25, 2009, 9:17am »

thats a very good point Newton! Although I can understand where A Dream is coming from, i think there is a limit to how much "looking" someone can do, and I think if my man were to be doing it all the time, I would get quite annoyed and frustrated with it. But when its only now and again, I think its perfectly normal

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« Reply #4 on Oct 1, 2009, 12:07am »

Yeah, I do. That's why I broke up with my girlfriend last week

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« Reply #5 on Oct 8, 2009, 4:27am »

my boyfriend doesn't look at other women when we are out (and I am not concerned)...and if he does...he doesn't make it obvious...I would think it's DISRESPECTFU if one were to say another man or women looks good while your partner is there...however if you THINK it well there OBVIOUSLY you can't help what your mind thinks...I do agree it's natural to look at the opposite sex....so in general it would not make me mad...it would just depend on if anything happens further with it to provoke something more...(flirting) (teasing) - to cause jealously/or may cause jealously etc...

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« Reply #6 on Oct 8, 2009, 10:39am »

very well said Kimmy!

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Re: Do you get mad when . . . . ?
« Reply #7 on Oct 10, 2009, 5:42pm »

So how do you guys feel about a significant other looking at porn? Would you ever look at porn with a significant other?

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« Reply #8 on Oct 10, 2009, 10:28pm »

I wouldn't care if my partner looked at porn. If s/he had a problem with porn, like looking at it twice a day or something, there I would be concered. Besides that I may even watch some, though I tend to see porn differently there most people so it may not work out too well. xD

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« Reply #9 on Oct 11, 2009, 3:09pm »

If I am being honest, its not something that comes into my relationship with my fiance very often but it has done and it doesnt bother me. It would bother me (like Newton said) if it was constant and my fiance was always looking at it, and our sensual side of the relationship was suffering because of it. Personally, I think you can get some interesting tips/tricks/ideas from porn and I don't mean that in a seedy way whatsoever but there can be things that give you more scope for experimenting. I wouldn't like it if it came between myself and my partner but otherwise I don't have a problem with it

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